My size is 3X in tops, I don't wear anything sleeveless. I'd love more goth clothing items. If you're getting me a bodice/corset, it'll be a 6X but remember I have a short torso so most pre-made ones are 99% of the time too long for me. NOTHING THAT GOES UP THE BUTT if you're going to get adult toys. I have medical trauma in that area. No food as I have a lot of food allergies. I don't wear rings as my fingers swell. Earrings have to be nickel-free. 

Hiceeden 8 Pounds Rock Tumbling Filler Media, 1/5" x 2/5" Reusable Cylinder Ceramic Pellets Non-Abrasive for Rock Tumbler, Stone Polisher